- i was just talking to calvin
- and i was telling him i think a person's the only thing that could keep me in one place
- and he was like...i think there should be another reason. i really liked that
12 minutes agoAnnette Hebler Vetrano- Calvin is right
- yeah he is
12 minutes agoAnnette Hebler Vetrano- but a person can help
- or be part of the reason
- yeah that's true too
- it was weird i think those guys honestly and genuinely like us. but you know what? i don't think they wanted to. i think they want to just do their solo thing now
- it's weird they're not 22. and i can't imagine not wanting to fall in love
- i guess you grow out of that innocence. or maybe it's a chick thing
9 minutes agoAnnette Hebler Vetrano- a little of both i think
- i think so too
- that's weird. seems like one of the adventures of life
7 minutes agoAnnette Hebler Vetrano- again...balance
3 minutes agoAnnette Hebler Vetrano- you know...i learned something this summer.
love is weird.
we have a preordained idea of what it should be any thats what gets us in trouble.
try not to put it in a box...it takes many forms and many levels
- i think that's really good advice
- kind of like that heartbreak thing. it's easy to look back and be pissed because he couldn't do it "right" but it was still love.
- it's just the best people can do. a reflection of themselves
2 comments:
Nice dialog . . . you're Mom's a great sounding board . . . wise . . . I'm in a similar spot myself. Doing the best I can do, though it's not good enough/not right enough for someone else. In my own situation, the woman involved very much has An Idea of what Love is in mind . . . and you know, I do too, BUT (big but) the face I see is Mr. Potato Head . . . can move a (metaphorical) nose here . . . eye there . . . turn the mouth upside down if I want . . . her idea of Love is in stone, and, based on nothing experiential . . . Mom's right - the face of love may be nothing like what we imagine (sounds a lot like Life, huh?:) . . . and, referring to your earlier post today, we must be Aware . . . Always. EAt a papaya for me :) Scott
P.S. In my own humble opinion, while a person "can" be a part of staying, to make them a primary reason (especially if it causes you to be someone you're not)(as in you having itchy feet, and them using some kind of cream that takes the itch away;) . . . My own personal approach is that I Live My Life. If I am to have someone in it, I will meet them - most likely on the same Edge of the World (metaphorically or real) that I am. And if I am not to meet someone, there's plenty to do :)
Years, and years ago a friend asked me (at an age when I really THOUGHT I had no idea) "What are you here for?" Without hesitation, I said "To touch people." Many years after that a spiritualist asked me the same question, I gave the same answer . . . she imagined that "touch" was physical (the first definition in the dictionary) while I (as I often do) looked down to definition five or eight . . . my "touch" was more emotional than physical . . . though I haven't ruled out the physical as part of my life, I am Here to touch . . . and continue to do so in the best way I can :) . . . Walk on . . . Scott
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